Chatting Online With Filipino Girls

Before you start to chat online with women, you should ask yourself why you want to. What expectations do you have? What outcomes do you want? You may only want to make new friends and have fun chatting about anything that comes to mind. If you want to chat online with women as the first step in meeting them in real life, with the intention of forming relationships that will be serious or just fun, then be sure to keep regarding it as the first step. Don’t fall into the trap of being indecisive about progressing to the next step. If you chat with someone that you decide you want to meet in real life, then move on to the next step quickly by getting her phone number to speak with her. If you still want to meet her after having a few phone calls, then arrange a meeting. Be bold! Don’t delay! 

Some men fall into the trap of just continually chatting online with Filipino girls or any women and don’t move on to the next step in the process of meeting women. The process of chatting online can become addictive and more fulfilling than actually meeting real women. You should step back and take a reality check if this starts to happen to you. Reassess your objectives for chatting online with women. If your intention is to meet women in real life, then be sure to move on to the next step. 

When Filipino girls or any women become interested in you and they start to become attracted to you, they’ll wonder if you’re a REAL man if you’re indecisive. Take the opportunity to move on to the next step. Now don’t get me wrong. I’m not in any way suggesting that you rush the process and talk on the phone or meet someone during your first few chats. Don’t be too eager. Being too eager will make the woman feel that you’re needy and maybe that you want to be with anyone, which will lessen or even turn off her attraction for you. Take your time to chat with at least a few women and then decide which of them interest you enough to progress further. 

The actual process of chatting online with Filipino girls or any women has advantages and disadvantages. The main disadvantage is that you can’t use body language unless you’re chatting using webcams, although, even then, your body language will have less effect than in real life. Some of the advantages are 

  • Less chance of distractions than if you are on a date with the lady with lots of other people around.
  • The conversation between you will be at a slower pace that you should take advantage of. In fact, you must dictate the pace. Take some time to reply to messages from her. This does two things; it gives you time to consider your response and by not replying immediately, you don’t appear needy.
  • It lets you display your intelligence by constructing correctly spelled words in grammatically correct sentences. So don’t abbreviate your words and make use of a spelling and grammar checker if necessary.
  • You can tease her in a playful way about any mistakes she makes in her messages, which will start the flirting process and allow you to be “Cocky and Funny.” David DeAngelo first coined the phrase and described how to be “Cocky and Funny”, which is one way to begin to get Filipino girls or any women attracted to you. I’ll describe the process in a future article as it’s a powerful way to cause attraction. 

So, decide what your reasons for chatting are, know what outcomes you desire, set a slow pace while chatting, be decisive and move on to the next step quickly if that’s what you want and chat to many women so that you don’t restrict the possibilities of who you’ll chat to and meet in real life.

Chat With Girls

Okay…so you want to know how to chat with girls. Good thing you found this. Remember that saying that goes “First impressions last forever”? THIS IS TRUE. This is not being shallow, however. Humans are normally visual creatures – it is natural for us to judge people based on their appearance within the first three seconds. After the first three seconds, if they decide to interact, they then being learning about your mannerisms (quirks), demeanor, and yes, what you are wearing/how well groomed you are in your picture or webcamera. Now, not everyone (girls especially) looks for the same thing. That’s why it’s important for you to know who (what kind of girl) you’re trying to impress when you’re trying to chat with girls. Once you have the first impression down, and she’s interested in talking to you, there’s a few other things you must do.

  • Be yourself. There is nothing that turns a girl off more than someone who pretends to be someone else. If you are uncomfortable, then take a minute to relax and breathe. Conversation will come easier to you when you’re not nervous.
  • Smile! People are drawn to others that smile, even if it’s over the phone – smiles can be heard, too. It’s a friendly greeting that suggests you are not going to harm them and it’s a friendly type of interaction that you want.
  • Confident about yourself; open. Confidence is one the the sexiest things a woman can find in a man. Ever seen the guy you never thought would get a girlfriend walking around with one of the most beautiful women you’ve ever seen? Confidence, it really goes a long way. Also, be open; people don’t like others who clam up and don’t talk or lie about things to impress.
  • The small talk! Find out some things in common with the other person. Keep the conversation going. If it lulls to a stop, she’s probably not going to be interested.
  • Positivity. This shows her what kind of attitude you have. Do you want her thinking you’re a pessimist and “downing” on everything?
  • Attention. Pay attention to her and what she says! You cannot expect to make a good impression on her, get her to start talking to you, then for her to fall in love (or even want to meet you) with you if your forget her name and talk about things that only you like. If you do not pay attention to what she’s talking about, she will stop talking to you. This is the one chance you have at making your first impression a lasting one or a dead one – this is what matters the most.
  • Principles. Do you really think the girl you’re chatting to now wants to hear about the party you got drunk at last weekend and had that awesome threesome? Girls like men with principles and morals. Try to withhold from stories like these – they will not win her over. Dirty jokes may be okay, if she likes those sort of jokes. Make sure to chat with her and pay attention to things she likes. It’s generally a good idea to let her crack the first joke, so you can see what kind of humor she has.

Getting prepared to chat with girls and women is almost like getting ready for a job interview; you want to impress the girl and show her your strong points, just as you would with a job. If you treat her with respect and follow the tips listed above, I promise you the girls will have no problem talking with you for a long while. Good luck with your escapades!

How To Chat Up Girls – One Simple Tip

When it comes to chatting up girls there really isn’t that much magic involved. The biggest mistake most guys make is that they think they know what girls are thinking. Before they even start they have set themselves up for failure. They prejudge with notions like “she will not like me”.

When you go online and do a search on how to chat up girls you really come across some interesting stuff. Some of it I have to admit is a little cheesy. Chat up lines that have been used to death. Don’t get me wrong there is some good information out there – however some of the techniques are questionable even a little bit comical.

Trust me you do not need to wear some special cologne or body lotion and try and dazzle a girl with a bunch of BS. Most girls quite frankly can see right through that rubbish.

The bottom line is this – being successful at picking up girls starts with you taking action. If you never approach a girl you cannot really expect to pick her up. You have to put some effort into it. You do not have to be god’s gift to the women you just simply have to go up to her and start a little conversation.

Now you may suffer from the fear rejection and as a result do nothing, but let me put it to you this way. If you never talk to her you will never get her. At least if you do go up and talk to her you have some chance of developing a relationship with her. So the fact is you have nothing to lose right?

When chatting up girls at least initially do not get personal. Try and make conversation regarding what is going on around you. Relax and be yourself. As I said if you never talk to her you will never get her so what have you to lose only some false pride.

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