Why You Should Chat With Girls Regularly

If you are a man who loves fun, you must have realized that to chat with girls is the ultimate kind of fun. It is so interesting to have women following you all the time. When you make it a habit to chat with girls you will have established a sure avenue to getting the women you want. It is one thing to spot a beautiful and attractive woman and it is another one to approach her and get her to date you. Many men fail when it comes to approaching the kind of girls they want. Due to this common fear among guys, women get mesmerized by men who walk up to them and pick up a conversation with a lot of confidence. This kind of a man who is not intimidated by a a woman’s profession, beauty or intelligence is every woman’s number one fantasy.

If you are a man who chat with girls, you do not have to be macho or drop dead handsome. All you have to be is emotionally stable. A person who is an emotional basket has very little to achieve when it comes to women. If you hope for dating success, build up your self-confidence and self-esteem and all the other things shall come following you. A secret worth leaking out is, the way to a woman’s heart is through attention. If you pay attention to a girl they will always reciprocate. It is through chatting with many girls that you will identify your true love and your perfect match. You will also gain experience with women a trait many guys lack.

The advantage of knowing women is that you are able to seduce a particular girl you want without fail. If you want to learn the art of seduction thoroughly, practice to chat with girls. It shall surely be well with you. You will date the girls you want and marry the one you want and still remain friends with many of them. One thing for sure is, a woman develops more attachment towards a guy than guy develops towards her. This means that even after separation the woman will still be viewing the man as a friend. This is a benefit for many men because a woman you knew in your teenage years can be your friend even when you are old and Grey. Many women value friendship and will always be there to chip in if you have a problem. You might be married with kids but if you maintain the friendship, it helps a lot towards maintaining your family.

Nobody was born knowing how to be a girls’ magnet but they have achieved the mastery with time. There are fewer men in the world today and yet there are some who have problems with having women in their lives. It is a no wonder that women are running to the already acquired men while the single men are all lonely. This is because the single men lack ambition and confidence. A woman does not want another woman in her life so you have to behave like a man that she is not. You have to convince her that you can offer security and love. If you make a habit to chat with girls you will learn what they require of man and become a master in seducing women and keeping them entertained.

Lone Girl Guides

Girl Guides conjures up pictures of camping, sitting round campfires, outdoor cooking, learning survival techniques, boating and adventurous activities, fun and friendship in the great outdoors. 

So you want to join the Girl Guides – trouble is…you live out beyond the black stump, and there’s no neighbours for miles. No worries! Join the Lone Girl Guides. What, I hear you ask, is that? Well, Australia is the ‘mother of invention’ when it comes to overcoming obstacles due to remoteness, and it didn’t take long to figure out a way that girls who were geographically challenged could still join in.  Lone Guiding started in Australia in 1912, just two years after Robert Baden-Powell found a bunch of girls marching with the Boy Scouts at the Crystal Palace Rally in London.  Just like those same girls Lone Guides refuse to let circumstances dictate their ability to be a Girl Guide!

Each month girls are sent out a package by mail including news and projects which they can do at home. There are opportunities to camp and join in adventurous activities too, with Lone Guides being very much a part of the world-wide community of Girl Guides.  Opportunities may be offered by nearby groups to join in with them, or to attend bigger State, National or international camps.  Lone Girl Guides have access to the recognition system as well – earning badges is great way to improve your skills, grow your character and challenge yourself to new heights.  Over the years, Lones has modernized, and whereas before girls may have communicated by UHF radio, they now use the internet to email and chat.

Girls who don’t face a distance challenge, may also join Lones. These girls typically face their own challenges: a heavy study workload at school or college, Guide meetings where they live clash with another important commitment, they are sick and often in hospital, they belong to a group of itinerant workers (daughters of fruitpickers or showpeople for example) or they are the only Guide in their group in that age-group.  Whoever she is, wherever she is, if a girl wants to be a Guide, opportunities are available for her to be welcomed into the Guidng Family.  Guiding is available for every female who is willing to make the Guide Promise.

How to Get That One Special Girl – Part 3 – Making the Move on the Girl Without Breaking Your Friend

It’s a difficult problem we all seem to get in; you start feeling for your best friend, or girls close to you who you get along with so well. The problem is, what if they don’t like you back? Fear no longer, for there is a way to determine if she likes you, figure out a way to ask her out if she does like you, and hopefully live happily ever after.

As a start the most important element is to ensure that this girl really IS interested in you in return. This is unfortunately the part where even I myself go wrong, in that you assume because she is fun, flirty and loves to talk to you, that she has an interest in possible dating. The problem is sometimes girls are just like this with every guy, even when they are already happy in a relationship. This is generally because they merely love the attention and thrill of flirting with another guy, even if it will never lead anywhere. Not that girls in relationships are always happy, she may be on the lookout for a better guy, and luckily there is an incredibly simple way to check: Take a look at how she treats other guys. See how she treats her other guy friends, those in your workplace/school and so on. If she doesn’t treat you any different she probably doesn’t have an interest in dating you. That’s not to say she’ll never have an interest in you, just that you shouldn’t make any moves yet.

There are many different situations you may find yourself in, as there are many different types of girls and many different levels you know each other at. So I’ve decided to figure out a generic system which you can use to figure out how to approach in the best possible manner. This is simply coming from my experience with many different girls and unfortunately every situation is different, so take it as a rough guide but don’t live by it, use common sense too J, I’m really just generalizing here so find what best fits your situation and go from there.

There are 3 main categories for a girls social/outgoing level and because of this each type of girl should be treated with a different tact. While outgoing girls might like to go out drinking with you and friends, the shy girls may want something where they don’t need to interact with others so much.

Shy Girl

The shy quiet girls are girls who may only have other female friends and are almost never the center of attention, often spending a night at home or with their girl friends rather than going out drinking. One of the most common situations you will find yourself in with a girl is this one. Quite often it’s that cute girl who looks like she could be really sweet and nice, but you just haven’t gotten to know her, instead simply being an admirer from afar. The problem with this situation is that it’s really hard for it to go anywhere especially if you yourself are very shy. Although there are pluses, generally shy girls will still go out with you even if they don’t particularly like you (this is a good thing, for when you are out together you can bond and perhaps take it further) and usually if you break up afterwards it’s easy to go back to how you were before. Most of the ways of asking her out can feel a bit awkward because shy girls don’t give as much feedback and/or enthusiasm as others, ignore this feeling for its only going to hold you back.

One last thing that many guys fail to realize is that just because shy girls don’t talk much or seem so excitable, doesn’t mean they want something low energy like a stroll along the beach as a first date. Going out to a theme park works very well too, so long as they don’t need to meet random strangers to have fun (ie. Pubs/clubs are generally a bad idea).

Normal Girl

The Normal Girls are the middle of the road girls that are open and talk to everyone, girls and guys alike but won’t usually be the kind of girl all the guys’ desire. Normal girls are some of the most fun girls in the world once you get to know them, like the outgoing girls they generally have a very vivid, strong personality, but like shy girls they do tend to hide it from those they don’t know too well. The thing about this type of girl is that her attraction level to you can greatly vary, and it often has a lot to do with how much interest she gets from the other guys. Unlike shy girls and Outgoing girls, normal girls should be done more on a case per case basis rather than just using a general rule on how to approach and deal with the situation.

For a first date, pretty much anything goes. Clubs may be a bit overwhelming unless they love going out and just dancing, but on the whole generally they are up for anything fun.

Outgoing Girl

The Outgoing girls are generally either hot and as such get a lot of attention, or they are simply the fun, hyperactive girls who love life, being very flirty and out there. Loud Outgoing girls can be by far the most fun however they are also the ones most guys generally get confused by. The reason for this confusion is simply that outgoing fun girls are generally the kind of girls that love to party and are perfectly fine flirting with any guy just for fun (even if they have no interest in dating him). This is why it’s best for any outgoing girl you ensure she treats you differently to other guys, she may be a lot more flirty than the shy girl in the office but that doesn’t mean she likes you more than her.

For a first date the outgoing kind of girl generally likes something with a bit of social interaction, clubbing works well, as does just a general house party of your friends. The Outgoing girls are generally more high energy and like more excitement than most and as such a dinner date doesn’t go down too well (it’s sweet and all, but you will probably find yourself in the *friends zone* with her unless you combine dinner with something else exciting.)

One thing to keep in mind is that because Outgoing girls are by their nature, very outgoing, she will most likely chat to random strangers when out and about (clubs/parties and so on), getting jealous of it will only be detrimental, so you need to be able to let her go and socialize by herself without needing to be the only one talking to her all night long.

The Friendships

Then there are also 3 types of friendships with girls. You can be acquaintances, maybe you just know each other’s names and share small talk, but don’t really hang out at all or have much to do with each other. There are the semi-friends, maybe you’ve been at the same party once or twice, talk a fair bit, and are comfortable around them. Maybe they are even members of your small group of friends but you probably wouldn’t hang out with without inviting everyone out at once, you are probably fine talking to them at school/work but don’t take it much outside there. Then there are the best friends, the girls you can talk too easily, everyone can see you are great friends and you are perfectly fine hanging out with them by yourself or with only 3-4 people out (like at the movies or something).

As an Acquaintance

Liking a girl from afar and sharing very few moments together is honestly not where you want to be in your school/workplace

Getting to know her is sometimes hard especially if you are in completely different social circles as you can’t just walk up and talk to her, and it may be hard to get her alone to talk to. If you feel you can’t talk to her in front of your friends in all honesty you aren’t ready to be making a move on her. If she likes you back she will actually introduce you and chat with you fine around her friends, without being uncomfortable about it. This is a key I think many guys miss, they see a girl they like and try to sort of only chat with her when she’s alone, ignoring her when she’s in her group of friends. This is honestly one of the worst things you can do to get to know her, as not only can you come off as “the weird guy who keeps talking to me when alone”, but even if she does like you she won’t want to date you because her friends don’t approve (and to women, approval of their friends is a huge thing).

That doesn’t mean just give up if you aren’t in her circle of friends, all you really need to do is get to know one or two of her friends as well as her and the rest will take care of itself (seriously), in groups its funny that most people make up their own minds based on the opinions of others, so if 2 or 3 of the girls/guys in the group think you’re a fun, chill, normal person they will all accept you and become friends with you. Not only this, once you are in with her circle of friends her attraction towards you will increase greatly (as you are no longer another random guy but a friend of hers), and she will start to notice you and your best qualities more than ever before.

Oftentimes it’s hard to break into that social circle of her friends but all you really need is one or two friends of hers that you can talk to and everyone else will follow suit.

Shy

Honestly the best thing to do in this situation would be to first get to know this girl until you are at a level where you are both comfortable with each other before asking her out. If you aren’t able to strike up a conversation fine in the office/at school it’s going to be monumentally harder on your first date, so just take the time to get to know her and see if you really do like her personality. The great thing about this is that the shy girls are generally the easiest to talk to once you realize that them being quiet doesn’t mean they don’t want to talk to you, it’s simply how they are. Talking isn’t usually as hard because you aren’t fighting for their attention like the more outgoing girls and shy girls don’t generally get that much social interaction so are happy to talk to anybody that comes up and starts a conversation with them.

You can ask her out if you really desire and she will most likely accept out of politeness even if she isn’t all that interested. However this has the problem of if you are both shy people and don’t know each other very well, dating may be incredibly awkward, which is why it’s best to at least be semi friends with her and hang out with her in a group of friends first.

Normal / Outgoing

Normal and Outgoing girls as acquaintances can actually work very well, simply because these girls generally have shorter attention spans and are more high energy than most they will get over things quite quickly if you ask them out and it doesn’t work out. On the flip side, these girls generally have enough social skills to talk to anyone and as such probably have a handful of guys interested in them. This pretty much means it’s a much better idea to actually meet them and their friends first (as said above) before asking her out, although it can work without knowing each other well (if you can tell she’s interested), and if you read the signals wrong and she doesn’t really like you back she will generally get over it pretty quickly.

As a Semi-Friend

This is a great level to be at as you probably know this girl well enough to just chat, go out for drinks with a big group of friends and so on without it being awkward or uncomfortable. It’s probably the best place to be with any girl you have an interest in as not only do you not have the problem of not knowing her well enough to talk to her, but you aren’t stuck in that dreaded *friends only* zone many guys find themselves in when they fall in love with their best friend.

As a semi friend pretty much all girls are very similar in approach, simply flirt with her a bit and see if she does it back then find out if she treats you differently than other guys. After you think she likes you, invite her out with your group of friends for drinks or a fun night out and see what happens, if she shows a great deal of interest in you while out (generally it’s a lot easier to tell if she likes you when out rather than in the office/school as she will be a lot more relaxed) then you can ask her out.

As a Best Friend

Having a female friend as a best friend can be the greatest thing in the world for many guys and this is the core reason I believe you should stay away from dating your best friend. Simply because having a female best friend (or multiple great female friends) and just hanging out them will get you better at interacting and dating women than any book can possibly teach you. Having female friends pays off on many levels, from learning to be comfortable around women, to being able to get advice from them (here’s a tip: the worst advice in the world generally comes from a woman’s mouth, the best advice comes from watching how she reacts to guys and the kind of guys she dates, but more on that in a future email) and to meet your friends friends for potential dating (hell, often female friends will set you up on dates with their friends themselves). It’s because of all these reasons that I’d highly recommend not dating your best friends unless you are almost certain she would love to date you.

Dating the Best friend is one of the true romantic stories and often can work out that way, they key is not to get it into your head that dating the best friend doesn’t ALWAYS work out, all it takes is some keen observational skills and being able to take an objective view of the situation (as it is) rather than a subjective (how you believe it should be).

If she asks for your opinion on how to talk to a guy, tells you about guys she likes or ever says you are like her “big brother” or something along those lines (as in someone she wouldn’t date) you don’t have a chance (actually you do, but it’s probably